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Building by
George Black, freelance writerCharacter
building is a term that caters to a desire for visual aids. The term conjures
up images of workers creating a structure such as a wall, a home, or on a larger
scale, construction workers at the site of a rising skyscraper. For most of us,
the underlying thought is that the structure, small or large, must be strong and
enduring, able to withstand earthquakes, hurricanes, typhoons, and whatever else
life throws its way. This and more is conveyed by two words: character building.
A
builder must have coined the term character building, pondering the meaning while
placing bricks or blocks atop one another, day after day. I like to think that
builder pictured words on the blocks he used: respect, integrity, responsibility,
compassion, honesty, caring, self-control, fairness, cooperation, and courage.
Can you see him? Can you see his blocks? |
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Character
building as a term may have a much different origin, but the act of building
character has strong parallels to the construction of a wall. Anyone can build
a wall, of blocks or character, but only a careful worker can build a strong,
enduring wall. Here I offer basic directions for your character wall. Begin
by planning the wall: setting character goals. Next, stretch a line of absolute
moral values as a guide to keep the wall straight, to keep it from snaking back
and forth across moral ground. Dig out the foundation, removing wrong concepts
of character and filling in with strong, accurate concepts. Tamp these concepts
repeatedly to give your wall a firm base. After tamping, pick up a single block
of character, look it over carefully, get to know what it will do for the wall,
and set it firmly in place. Use your level on the character block, and hammer
the trait where needed until it is straight and firm in its base. One block at
a time, repeat this action until the base row or character is laid. Now, keeping
your wall straight in all directions, stack additional character traits, binding
the blocks firmly together with a mortar blended of thoroughness and determination.
When you are done, and the mortar has hardened, you should have a wall that will
last a lifetime.
Character
building requires proper tools, daily effort and time, but the rewards are
unlimited. It is never too early or too late to begin building a wall of character,
but the sooner you start, the stronger the wall will be, the longer the rewards
will be enjoyed. | |